Lifestyle. It’s not a lifestyle. DOMINANT isn’t something you just are, boss at work and boss at home and boss of the dog. submissive isn’t something you just are, all the time, always the little meek obedient one. It’s a game. It’s a game we play in the bedroom. You don’t get to tell me how to play. You don’t get to tell me that I’m not a real elf unless I’m an elf all the time because, well, yeah. Of course I’m not a real elf. I just like playing pretend. Of course I’m not a real DOM. I’m just playing pretend. There is no real DOM. Real doesn’t come into it, real is the wrong question. I’m not a paladin but I’m a damn good paladin when I want to be. I’m not a sub but I’m a damn good sub when I want to be. It’s a game. It’s a role. Nobody is really what they’re being. We’re just playing pretend.

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